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Allow Me

Every day we endure so many things we don’t really want – from adverts to other peoples’ behaviour. The question is: ‘how can I learn to allow things to happen in a way which feels right for me’?

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The Perfect Serve

Do you try to ace it, or is it love-all? Here’s the recipe for serving up your loved one exactly what their heart desires.

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Take, Take, Take

From Black Friday sales to land grabs in the Amazon, most of us would probably say there’s too much taking going on in the world. Taking has become a dirty word. But it doesn’t have to be…

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The Perfect Gift

What’s the ultimate gift for you and your loved ones this year? (Hint: it’s not festive knitwear!)

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Kiss and Tell

Look at this picture and ask yourself the following question: can you tell who this kiss is for? The answer may not be as obvious as you might think…

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Can We Get Intimate?

Searching the internet for guidance on intimacy leads to a bombardment of articles and think-pieces – referencing everything from God to sex! But is all this over-thinking just part of the problem?

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All Change Please

The popular perception is that inner connection is all about remaining perfectly still, not even moving if a mosquito bites… but is it?

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Sounds Good

If we find ourselves repeatedly restricted from safely expressing how we truly feel then sooner or later we’ll learn to stop listening to the messages our body is giving us.

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Meet The Sexperts

There are thousands of sexuality professionals like me out there, across fields as diverse as bodywork, counselling, tantra and medicine. But where do you begin, if you want to find one?

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What Kind of Wanker Are You?

Masturbation: the best worst kept secret in the world. There’s probably not a person who hasn’t at least tried it, most of us do it regularly, but it’s rarely acknowledged.

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Who Do You Love This Valentines?

Is self-pleasuring really such a poor substitute for a ‘real’ lover? Maybe all those valentine’s romantics are missing a bit of a trick…

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The Space Time Continuum

During the festive season it’s all too easy to get lost in the holy trinity of consumerism, family, and overindulgence. So here’s a chance to reconnect with how it feels to feel.

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